Its funny how when we fall in love we believe nothing in the world could go wrong. We see through rose tinted glasses, thinking everything is beautiful and that the world is at it's best. Having that constant feeling of falling, deeper and ever more so... it begins to become natural to go with the flow. Trust, faith, joy and peace become your best friend. Knowing that challenges will arise but that "love will conquer" right? Then all of sudden you hit the ground, the bed of roses become a bush of thrones and you wonder where all this betrayal, sadness and constant worry came from. How did they become your company? When did this love become a MY reality. The hormones fade. The chemistry stops and you are left with desicions. Is it me or you? You start to cast blame on your lover and vice versa. What did I do wrong? When did it all start. Why didn't I notice this before? Or why did I ignore the signs. The blaming game begins... Why are they like this. When did thy become like this. Who really are they? Feelings fade to the background, it is now time for the heart and head to work together and take the lead. "Stay?" or " Go?". "Love" or "infatuation"
If you stay, then you know that without a doubt, you are in it for the love. No hormonal spikes are clouding your judgement. You decided to love.
If you leave.....we will talk about that in the next post.
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