Sometimes you've got to treat yourself. Get all dolled up and grad a friend and go on a date. Better still treat yourself to a night with just you and love every minute of it. Don't wait for a man to take you out. Even if you have a man, still do yourself the favour of spending a night apart just loving yourself and being independent, cause sometimes things can get overwhelming and in all that, you need to remember how to love and treat yourself. It doesn't have to be a date night. I could be a lunch out, a long walk, you could even stay in, light some candles and enjoy your own company. You know? have a little "me time". This time is dedicated to just you. Spend it loving yourself. How you do that is entirely up to you. You can spend it reflecting on yourself, treating yourself, just chilling , meditating etc. If you have a lot going on around you, positive or negative things, try not to think about them. You might get over whelmed. The aim of this "me time" is to get away from the hectic part of life and well, just have fun, be happy, be calm or be active, as long as you are being you.
I and my twin brother were born premature babies. On the day of our birth after so many hours of being under the knife to finally bring us out. Our mum was told that she should take heart and not expect us to live longer than three months, but my mum being the woman of faith that she is refused to believe it. She instead replied that she would bring her healthy babies to see him in three months. Three months later we were even bigger than our age. What can I say we were fed A LOT of love. Over twenty years down the line and we are still strong and kicking. When God has a plan for you regardless of what the doctor says, you will still to make it. What the doctor told my mum was fact, what my mum replied was the truth. The truth doesn't deny the fact but instead brings God's intentions to a reality. So if you have been told you anything negative, speak the truth that is God's words as a reply. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future". Jeremiah 29 vs 11. Your words are spirit and life. Declare it, believe it and live it. "Faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen". Hebrews 11 vs 1. You might not see it yet, but let your faith be the evidence of the truth that is yet to manifest. I am a result of my mother's faith and declaration of truth.