In the previous post I shared my views on love and hurt. Love is truly a beautiful thing when you have someone to share it with. One of the most painful experiences in life is one sided love. Loving someone who doesn't feel the say way about you. Should you give up on that, well it depends on how far you are willing to go for that kind of love. What are you willing to do? What are you willing to invest / sacrifice? How long are you willing to endure. These are questions you must ask yourself. Then you will get the answer.
Now, back to the original topic if you choose to leave, given up, say goodbye, what happens?
Know that you are leaving behind all the feelings you have for that person, because there is no point in trying to move on while feelings for that person still lingers in your heart. You have to leave behind the hurt/guilt. You can't move on when you are still holding unto the anger, fear or guilt those feelings will trap you and you won't be able to get out. Anger is fury's fuel. Let it go. Most importantly you are letting go of someone that was once dear to you. It is like leaving a part of your heart behind. All the time you had spent together all the love you once had. If you love you have to come to point where you acknowledge these things and are truly ready to step forward. One thing you can take with you are the memories. Know that the time spent with that person was not wasted and take it as a learning process.
Hi. Welcome to this page. This journal (blog) is an insight into my journey through life with God.
I hope it is a bless and a source of encouragement to everyone, theist, atheist, Christian and non-Christian.